Are You Over 35?
What to Know About Perimenopause and Menopause

Did you know that perimenopause, the stage before menopause when hormones begin to shift, can start as early as your mid-30s?

On average, women begin experiencing these hormonal changes around age 35, although the timing and symptoms vary widely.  Some women notice subtle changes in sleep, energy, mood, or weight, while others may not experience any noticeable signs for years. Understanding what perimenopause is and how it can affect your body and mind can help you prepare and take steps to support your health.

For many women, perimenopause can last several years, bringing changes that affect not only physical health but also emotional well-being and daily routines. While every woman’s experience is unique, understanding these changes and knowing how to support your body and mind can make a huge difference.

Perimenopause is the transitional phase before menopause, when hormone levels, particularly estrogen and progesterone, begin to fluctuate. This stage can last several years (up to 15 years) and may bring changes in sleep, energy, mood, and menstrual cycles.

Menopause is defined as the point when a woman has not had a menstrual period for 12 consecutive months. It marks the end of fertility and comes with a natural decline in hormone levels, which can affect various aspects of health and well-being.

Hysterectomy and Early Perimenopause

For people who have undergone a hysterectomy, whether partial or full, the timing of perimenopause and menopause will definitely be affected. Research indicates that even when the ovaries are left intact, a hysterectomy can lead to an earlier onset of perimenopause.

Why does this happen?
Ovarian blood flow disruption: The uterus and ovaries are connected by blood vessels. Surgical removal of the uterus can reduce blood flow to the ovaries, potentially causing them to age faster or produce fewer hormones.
Hormonal changes: Even with the ovaries intact, some studies show declines in estrogen and progesterone levels after hysterectomy, which can trigger perimenopausal symptoms sooner.
Surgical menopause (if ovaries are removed): In cases of full hysterectomy with ovary removal (oophorectomy), menopause is immediate because the primary source of estrogen and progesterone is gone.  

Research insights:  
• A large cohort study found that women who had a hysterectomy without ovary removal experienced menopause, on average, 1–5 years earlier than those who did not undergo surgery.
• Symptoms like hot flashes, sleep disturbances, and mood changes may appear earlier in these women due to the hormonal shifts.  

If you’ve had a hysterectomy, it’s important to be aware that perimenopause may arrive sooner than expected. Monitoring hormone levels and discussing symptom management with your healthcare provider can help you navigate this transition more comfortably.

Start With Intention

Before diving into nutrition, exercise, or lifestyle changes, it helps to set a personal intention. Ask yourself: how do I want to feel during this transition? Clearer, calmer, more energetic? Focusing on this can guide your daily choices and help you feel more in control.

Some women find it helpful to write down their intentions, track patterns, or use structured workbooks to clarify goals. Small reflective exercises, like journaling for 5–10 minutes a day, can provide insight into how lifestyle changes are impacting mood, energy, and overall balance. If you're interested, I offer a free guide on how to set your Menopause Intention.

Nutrition That Supports Hormonal Health

Hormones and food are deeply connected. Changes in estrogen, progesterone, and other hormones during perimenopause can affect weight, digestion, and even sleep.

While there’s no single “perfect diet,” certain strategies can support hormonal balance:  
- Prioritize protein and healthy fats to maintain muscle mass and satiety.
- Include plenty of fiber-rich vegetables and fruits to support digestion and steady blood sugar.
- Limit processed foods and excess sugar, which can exacerbate mood swings and energy crashes.  

Even small adjustments, like swapping one refined snack for a handful of nuts or adding a colorful salad at lunch, can have meaningful effects over time.

These are general tips and may not suit everyone’s unique situation. For more tailored guidance, you can always contact me for a personalized consultation. If you’d like structured support right away, the Menopause Solutions mini-course offers workbooks and step-by-step guidance across nutrition, movement, mental well-being, and sleep, helping you create a daily routine that truly supports your hormonal health.

Move Your Body With Purpose

Exercise is one of the most powerful tools during perimenopause. Muscle mass naturally declines with age, bone density can decrease, and metabolism slows, but the right movement can counteract these changes.

- Strength training a few times per week helps maintain muscle and bone health.
- Mobility exercises improve joint function and reduce stiffness.
- Moderate cardio boosts energy, heart health, and mental clarity.

You don’t need hours at the gym; short, consistent workouts that target major muscle groups are enough. Even daily walks, gentle yoga, or resistance-band routines can make a big difference. Many women find that combining exercise with reflection or journaling, tracking how workouts affect energy and mood, helps them stay motivated.

Mental Clarity and Emotional Balance

Perimenopause often brings unexpected emotional changes. Brain fog, irritability, or heightened stress are common, but there are ways to support emotional well-being:
 
- Mindfulness practices such as guided meditations or deep-breathing exercises reduce stress and improve focus.
- Journaling or reflection prompts help process emotions and notice patterns in mood or energy.
- Daily routines that include intentional breaks, movement, or quiet time can prevent overwhelm.  

Addressing mental health is about creating habits that support clarity, resilience, and calm during hormonal shifts. Structured workbooks or courses that combine mindfulness, exercises, and reflection can provide extra guidance and make these practices easier to integrate.

Prioritizing Sleep

Sleep is often one of the first things affected during perimenopause. Hormonal changes can lead to lighter sleep, night sweats, or waking up feeling unrefreshed. Better sleep has a ripple effect on energy, mood, and overall health.

Some practical tips:  

- Stick to a consistent bedtime and wake-up schedule.  
- Create a cool, dark, and quiet sleeping environment.  
- Limit screens and stimulating activities close to bedtime.  
- Experiment with relaxation practices, like gentle stretching or breathing exercises, to signal your body it’s time to rest.  

Even small changes can make a big difference, and keeping a sleep journal can help identify patterns or triggers for disrupted rest.

The Perimenopause and Menopause Changes Nobody Talks About

Many women are familiar with the well-known symptoms of perimenopause and menopause, but there are also quieter shifts that happen in the body, changes that are common, yet not often mentioned.

These changes can feel unexpected, and it’s easy to wonder where they’re coming from. They are simply signs that hormones are adjusting, and your body is communicating in its own way.  Below are some of the lesser-known changes many women notice during perimenopause and menopause.  

Nervous System and Sensory Changes 
Hormonal shifts can influence how your nervous system and senses respond, leading to sensations like:
• Tingling in the tongue or lips
• A buzzing or humming feeling inside the body
• Itchy inner ears
• A temporary metallic or bitter taste
• Changes in smell sensitivity

These are surprisingly common and often one of the earliest signs that hormones are starting to shift.  

Mouth and Gum Changes 
Estrogen also affects moisture levels and tissue health in the mouth. Some women notice:
• Burning mouth or tongue
• Dry mouth
• Gum tenderness or occasional bleeding
• Increased tooth sensitivity

These changes can come and go as hormone levels rise and fall.  

Skin and Tissue Shifts 
As hormones fluctuate, the skin and connective tissues may respond in subtle ways, such as:
• Small itchy patches
• Bruising more easily
• Slightly slower healing
• Dryness around the eyes
• New sensitivities to products

These changes are gentle reminders of how deeply connected hormones are to the skin’s natural rhythm.  

Digestive and Metabolic Changes 
The digestive system is closely tied to hormonal balance, so shifts may show up as:
• Bloating after foods that were always easy
• Occasional reflux
• Slower digestion
• Blood sugar dips or shakiness before meals
• New cravings
• Changes in cholesterol or triglycerides

These changes often settle with supportive meals, fibre, hydration and steady daily habits.  

A More Sensitive Nervous System 
Many women notice that their body feels a little more responsive than usual:
• Feeling startled more easily
• Sensitivity to loud sounds
• Restlessness at night
• Difficulty unwinding

These experiences reflect how hormones interact with neurotransmitters that support calmness and sleep.  

Sleep Patterns That Shift 
Beyond general insomnia, sleep may change in more specific ways:
• Waking around 3 AM
• Feeling wide awake despite being tired
• Waking earlier than usual
• Lighter sleep

These patterns often improve with balanced blood sugar and calming bedtime routines.  

Subtle Musculoskeletal Changes 
Hormones also influence joints and connective tissues. Some women experience:
• Stiffness in the morning
• Frozen shoulder
• Slower recovery from exercise
• Occasional aches

These changes reflect how closely estrogen supports muscle and tissue repair.

Your body is adjusting, recalibrating and finding a new balance. Understanding these often-unspoken symptoms can make the transition feel gentler, more familiar and less mysterious. Perimenopause and menopause are deeply individual experiences, and recognising these quieter signs can help you care for yourself with more clarity and compassion.

And if you would like support navigating these changes, I’m here to help you find what works for your body.

Conclusion

Perimenopause and menopause don’t have to feel overwhelming. Small, intentional steps in nutrition, movement, mental health, and sleep can help you feel more balanced, energized, and in control.

For women looking for a structured approach, I created the Menopause Solutions mini-course as a practical resource. It includes workbooks, guided exercises, and tips to support hormonal health, improve daily routines, and navigate emotional and physical changes. The course is designed to help you explore strategies that fit your life, without feeling like you need to overhaul everything at once.

By understanding your body, reflecting on your habits, and making small, intentional adjustments, you can approach this stage of life with greater ease, balance, and confidence. Feel free to contact me for any questions.